How to Stay Calm in Stressful Moments
This Monday, when the storm of stress hits, ride it out and continue throughout the week. Stress is a normal part of all of our lives. However, we can become experts in managing it.
Stress can affect us at any level. It causes our bodies to go into a “fight or flight” mode, which is designed to protect us only in dangerous situations. The brain signals the nervous, respiratory, and cardiovascular systems to prepare for making quick decisions. The heart pounds to fill muscles with blood, breathing increases to get more oxygen into the body, and adrenaline triggers more energy.
But in modern society, all of these physiological reactions arise as a result of any kind of stress – traffic, a busy day at work, or even reading the news.
We may not have the power to completely eliminate daily stress, but we do have the power to recalibrate ourselves with a few tips.
Here is what you can do to stay calm and weather stress:
Breathe Deeply. At the first sign of stress, start deep breathing. Even while in the midst of a turbulent situation, you can do deep breathing exercises to slow your heart rate and lower your blood pressure. When you take a deep breath, feel the air fill your lungs and belly. Exhale more slowly than you inhale. Focusing on your breathing by repeating a mantra or phrase, such as “breathe in, breathe out,” will also lower your stress levels.
Step Back. Putting the cause of your stress in perspective will help you view it objectively. By looking at the big picture, the stressor might not be as bad as you thought. It’s a healthy way to see your stress in a greater context.
Find Your Flow. Also known as “getting in the zone,” finding your flow will help you focus on the task at hand. You don’t have to be doing a physical activity to find your flow, but the same techniques will help you block out stressful distractions and stay productive.
Remember – the one thing you can control in the midst of chaos is your own response to it. This Monday, don’t let stress control you. Keep calm and carry on!